it.s not easy making choices.
when you make a choice you decide which one you want. most of the time you can't have both. if you chose one, you lose the other.
it.s black or white.no middle.

but when it comes to people, it.s more complicated. why do we always fear we.re going to lose people? people that really matter will stay, even if it.s not easy, even if they would rather be anywhere else.
people are going to come and go  in our life. it matters what happens while they are there.  you should never be scared to share your feelings with a dear friend. if he.s a real friend, he.ll understand and he.ll do his best to make it work in a way that it.s best for both of you. he won.t give up on you just because it.s not the way that he saw it. he.ll fight for your friendship,  and if he won.t, at least you know it.s not worth the struggle.

there is always something you can do before giving up!